Dear family:
We have had a very unusual week, weather-wise. There were some
record-breaking warm and sunny days, which reminded us how eager we are for
Spring. It gave all of us a great boost of energy to go for walks and to the
park. Then this weekend it became cold and rainy again. David was away most of
the time at a brutal presbytery meeting – so brutal, in fact, that the
moderator passed out! The boys and I were not enjoying ourselves much more-- we
were supposed to be doing a thorough housecleaning, but the dreary weather
depressed us too much until we decided to have a proper English tea party
instead. (My Auntie Doris would deny that it was proper enough, as we didn’t
put milk in our tea.)
It has been several weeks since I’ve written because my usual Sunday
afternoon writing time has been filled with other things. Two weeks ago I took
Stephen to the Bach Choir Family Concert at Zoellner Arts Center. This was
billed as a concert for students in grades 3 - 6 and their parents. We’ll be
taking the older boys to the 100th anniversary concert of the B minor
Mass later this month, but I thought this family concert sounded more
appropriate for Stephen. I think it was pretty much what the choir does in their
Bach to School programs. Greg Funfgeld did an excellent job making it
interesting to the kids, and everyone was even given Bach Choir birthday cake at
the end. I wrote to him that my favorite part was the very first number. The
choir stood around the perimeter of the auditorium; we were sitting almost in
the last row. They sang "Jesu, Joy" and we were literally surrounded
by the voices in harmony before they proceeded to the stage. Stephen has never
heard music like that up close in "surround sound". He had been
reluctant to go to the concert, but at the end said, "That was pretty
interesting!" High praise, indeed! The only sour note to the affair was my
discovery – post concert -- that Judy had found a way to get tickets
half-price!
Then last Sunday I was again at Zoellner for the Lehigh Choir concert. Since
several of our RSF students are in the choir, we always go to hear them perform,
which they appreciate since several do not have parents able to attend. This
time, both Joel and Jeff had solos (Jeff had two), and we have had fun teasing
Joel all week because his solo was "Zinga, zinga, zinga, zinga..." We
took the Plowman sisters with us, who are Joel’s high school fan club, and met
up with George King (David’s intern) and met his wife at long last. It was a
great concert, and made up for the previous week by being free (these concerts
are usually $10 each) and we got to sit in the first-class section.
Along the same vein of watching friends perform, the boys and I went to see a
homeschool production of Little Women. Peter’s partner in crime, Gabe
West, was Laurie, and Andrew MacDonald was Professor Baehr, among others we knew
in the cast. It was preceeded by an (supposedly) abridged production of The
Three Musketeers done by elementary students. Unfortunately, they were on
floor level, and so invisible to all but the front rows. Little Women
itself went on for two and a half hours, and it was an endurance test for me
because I had Ben along. He recognized the actors, and escaped my clutches
during Andrew’s declaration of love speech and ran to him on the stage, asking
if he’d like to play with silly putty.
The reason I had Ben was that David needed to leave early to get to Baltimore
for the Spring student conference. About six or seven Lehigh students went
(double last semester), as well as a friend of Daniel’s who just lost his
place in the Naval Academy (a victim of pneumonia and calculus). This young man
is also coming to our campus Bible study. I confess I was jealous that David was
getting to see Daniel, while I stayed home to keep the home fires burning – or
more accurately, to keep putting the fires out! We had a houseful of children
(siblings of the actors, who had Saturday performances) so things were lively
here. All reports about the conference from the students and staff were
positive, although I believe that only a few hours sleep was had by all. The
college girls got up early to make a breakfast banquet for the guys, which was
probably the only reason they could be pried out of bed after staying up all
night playing computer games.
Daniel’s phone calls home have been litanies of misery over the
difficulties of this semester’s calculus. David is not that sympathetic,
because further inquiries reveal that Daniel’s weekends are filled with
lacrosse games, indoor soccer, Barnum & Bailey circus, mountain climbing,
and the Inner Harbor. I can’t be too hard on Daniel because my own claim to
fame is that I got a big fat zero on my first calculus exam (then again, I wasn’t
planning to be an engineer). When I marveled with Daniel at the mind of Sir
Isaac Newton, who could invent calculus, when the rest of us struggle to
understand what is taught to us, Daniel merely muttered something about wanting
to meet him in a dark alley.
Since my last letter we have celebrated David’s birthday. As is our
tradition, the birthday boy gets to pick the dinner menu. His choice was cheese
fondue and, instead of birthday cake, Mom’s Christmas pudding (she had brought
some on her last visit which I froze). The Christmas pudding is a rich and heavy
fruitcake served with hardsauce. The combination of cheese fondue and Christmas
pudding almost did us in; we sat around the rest of the evening with glazed
eyes, barely able to move. I made a more traditional chocolate birthday cake
served with strawberries and cream that we took to the Lehigh Bible study. While
carrying the cake with lit candles over to David, I stumbled, and a few candles
flew off at him, causing enough excitement that I forgot to read the poem my dad
wrote for the occasion.
Speaking of food makes me think of an amusing scene this morning. As some of
you know, our church has weekly communion, and David makes the bread (in a bread
machine). This morning the phone rang, and it was a man from our church wanting
to talk to David. It turns out he was asking if he could have David’s recipe!
As I listened to David saying 3cups of flour, 3 tablespoons honey, etc., I
couldn’t help but imagine what his mother would think of the scene!
A less amusing scene took place one evening as I was preparing for my Master’s
Academy class. I wanted to draw a giant Nine Men’s Morris board on a sheet so
I could teach my students this classic game. David offered to help me, and it
was obviously late at night because we both had the bright idea of using the
square design of my kitchen linoleum to trace over. It didn’t occur to us that
if the sheet was thin enough to see through, the permanent marker would bleed
through. So now I have the markings of a Nine Men’s Morris board on my kitchen
floor– and proof that permanent market is truly permanent. I take small
comfort in reading that Westminster Abbey and Canterbury Cathedral have ones
carved in their choirs, too.
I’m afraid that the boys have been largely neglected in this letter. They
are all healthy, if not wealthy or wise. Perhaps I can get Chris to write
another of his own newsletters for you. I’m attaching some comic strips that
various family members identified as being very descriptive of our family life.