Dear family:
Surprise! I bet none of you expected to hear from me so soon – my weekly
letters have been (at best) monthly, but I thought I’d turn over a new leaf
and see if I could write again this afternoon. This is part of my larger
intention to pick up momentum for the coming school year.
The looming school year has featured largely in the past week’s activities.
We’ve been collecting school supplies for Peter, and purchasing shoes for just
about everyone. At this time of year I always remember with fondness the
excursion to buy school shoes at Buster Brown, where we got a pencil and pencil
case with our Hush Puppies. Our boys wear sneakers for school shoes, and there
is no sentimentality attached to the occasion of purchasing them, since the boys
hate shopping and just want to get it over with. The big news is that
Christopher grew 2 ½ sizes since January!
This week the big boxes from Calvert School arrived. This annual event is our
equivalent of first day of school traditions, and Christopher and Stephen
eagerly look through the box – groaning over the dreaded grammar texts and
eagerly checking out the reading books. A few weeks ago Calvert contacted me and
asked if I would represent them at a curriculum fair in Bartonsville in exchange
for a half price discount on my order. I have completely avoided curriculum
fairs myself, because I would be overwhelmed by the number of choices and would
purchase all of them, but naturally I agreed to go and had a lot of fun being a
"booth babe" for a day.
Those of you who are local may have noticed the article on homeschooling in
the August 16th Morning Call, which had a photograph of us and
included some "sound bites" from an interview the reporter had with
me. At first we didn’t see it ourselves, because it was in a magazine extra to
the paper, called Lehigh Valley Woman. (The article on us followed one on
gay and lesbian parenting.) I was surprised by the number of people who did see
it – we were alerted by quite a few people on Stephen’s soccer team,
neighbors and so on. I can’t imagine having enough time to read the paper that
thoroughly. This article was nice in that it was mostly accurate.
Most of you have met Joel, the president of our RSF group at Lehigh. At long
last, after a summer long quest, he purchased a used car and came over to show
off his prize. Of course we all had to take a ride in it, and to contribute to
the celebration I put Beethoven’s Ode to Joy in the tape player. It was
great to see how much pleasure this new freedom and mobility was giving him, and
it will be a big help to us, too, since now he can do a lot of the driving of
students that we have done up to this point.
Most of our students came back this week, and we have had some over for
dinner to hear about their summers. On Friday, David and I did our freshman
outreach table, with some of the students helping when they weren’t required
elsewhere. Our McDonald’s cooler had a leak, so we had a swarm of bees around
the table most of the day, but no one got stung at our table (though they did at
another’s table). The administration also gave us helium balloons, which
tended to toss in the wind and hit people in the face. Nevertheless, it was a
good day and we met some interested people. We provide a service to the
university in giving countless people directions around campus and offering cold
drinks to the panting parents who aren’t prepared for Lehigh’s hills. In the
past the university has had some student employees designated to do this, but
this year they didn’t bother and gave us their official sanction. We had an
extended chat with our faculty advisor, whom we see once a year at this event.
His daughter is enrolling at Lehigh, so we encouraged them to send her our way.
Three students came with us to church this morning; next week there may be more
as some were away at choir camp. It is a rather long and tiring day (and we
always get sunburned, even with sunscreen) but is great visibility for the
group.
The boys went to Dorney Park for one last summer fling with a group of church
friends on Monday. The teens at church have done a lot of things together over
the summer; they are a nice group. Since Stephen was deemed too young for this
group, I suggested that Dan take him later in the week, and they linked up with
Sarah Plowman who was taking her younger brother, too. Poor Stephen was a bit
traumatized by having been taken on Steel Force three times. I’m rather
pleased with myself that I have managed another summer without having to go
myself!
Peter handed in his resignation at KFC in order to focus on his soccer
practices. They have been grueling and a summer working at KFC and on the
computer hasn’t put him in the best shape. On Monday he asked the coach for a
break because he had a headache after sprints, and the coach told him that if he
wasn’t up to the practice, then he didn’t want him on the team. The coach
called us up a few hours later and told us he had been feeling bad ever since
and that he realized he was angry with the team and had taken it out on Peter.
So he wanted Peter back on the team. By this point I think Peter was feeling
relieved that he wasn’t going to have to go through more practices, so the
news was a mixed blessing! We have watched a couple of scrimmages, and this
level of aggressive play is a stretch for Peter, but he has the opportunity to
learn a lot if he doesn’t get too beat up first. I just wish there were a lot
more "sport" in high school athletics around here. These games seem to
be taken way too seriously – not necessarily by the kids but by the adults in
the community.
I wrapped up my summer Bible study on Wednesday. Early in the summer I had
mentioned that I love cookies, so to thank me for leading the study, each woman
brought me a dozen or more homemade cookies with strict instructions that I was
not to share them with my brood. I now have a huge stash of wonderful cookies in
the freezer. One woman apologized that she could not cook, so she gave me a
bottle of wine, and another gave me a box of chocolates, and another gave me a
book. At the beginning of the study we exchanged coffee mugs with summer prayer
partners, and at the last meeting returned the mugs. Since the name of the book
we had read together was Treasures of Encouragement, a number of the
women filled the mugs with Nestle Treasures chocolates. So all in all, it was a
summer of great encouragement of one another, except perhaps in the area of
dieting! It was especially gratifying to hear one of the women (who was raised
Catholic but has no familiarity with the Scriptures) speak about how much she
appreciated the study. Now I have to change direction and prepare for my MAFA
classes in the history and literature of the 17th century. Somehow I
don’t think it will be quite as fun!
Daniel returns to Hopkins next Sunday. By mistake the KFC manager did not put
him on the work schedule this week, but he is trying to negotiate some hours
anyway because he was counting on another week’s income. If he doesn’t get
the hours, I plan on having him help me with some small painting projects around
the house. Come on over and see our new front porch!