Dear family:
The rest of the family is at evening church, but David suggested I stay home
and relax. I have been fighting a sore throat for a couple of days and am
feeling a little punk. He had similar symptoms for a few days so now it is my
turn. I thought I’d make use of this time and get a letter off to you.
This has been the period when Peter has dominated the family scene. I spent
an afternoon with him at Lehigh, attending an orientation for the High School
Scholar’s program. Peter is one of two students from his high school selected
to take a free course at Lehigh; there are about 50 students in the program from
across the Lehigh Valley. The biggest difficulty has been trying to coordinate
with his regular school schedule. Peter intended to take Engineering 1, and
signed up for the late afternoon section before he realized that doing so would
conflict with soccer practice and games. We tried to switch to the 8 o’clock
section, but that was full. Figuring all this out, including watching the web
site for students dropping that section took quite a bit of time over several
days. It ended up that he instead registered for IR 10, a world politics course,
and will hopefully take Engineering 1 in the Spring. Of course, he has to
survive this course, and much to my chagrin every student we have spoken
to who has taken this course has made comments like, "Ooohhh, that’s a
killer course" or "That’s the hardest course I’ve taken at
Lehigh" and so on. Already we have had deal with a $160 textbook bill (no
textbook for Engineering 1) and trying to figure out a way to get the New
York Times on a daily basis when Peter only has class twice a week and no
place within walking distance gets it. Uncle Peter has requested that his
relationship to Peter not be made known to the professor until it is clear that
Peter is passing the course, since he serves on an advisory board to the
department!
In the midst of this Peter has gone "male bonding hiking" with his
teammates on the Appalachian Trail, and is looking forward to high school
classes beginning next week. He still has not finished, Les Miserables,
one of his summer reading requirements, though. The local paper had a front page
article recently, saying that procrastinating summer reading assignments has
been directly linked to delayed frontal lobe development in teenagers.
Peter really has had a lot of good news/ bad news scenarios. He received a
phone message that he had won a gift certificate, and we immediately jumped to
the conclusion that it was the $100 certificate that the High School Scholars
program was awarding. Instead it was $7 to a local video store (for which, since
he doesn’t own a credit card, he would have to pay $10 to use.) Another
example: the orthodontist has decided his braces can come off in six weeks. That’s
two weeks after senior pictures. His ankle has come along well and he was
back to playing, but now his coach wants him tested for exercise-induced asthma,
which means more of the doctor visits he hates. But the coup de grace took place
this weekend, at the opening tournament of the high school season. Peter’s
team was down one when Peter scored a goal! His team went on to trounce the
other team 5-1, but in the process Peter collided with an opposing player and
fractured his clavicle. Of course, being a holiday weekend, we had no
alternative but to go to the ER. We will have to check in with an orthopedic
surgeon on Tuesday, but obviously he won’t be able to play for awhile. A
wretched by-product of this excitement was that I completely forgot that Ben was
supposed to go to a birthday party that afternoon, and I had to call and
profusely apologize to the birthday boy. Another irony was that David and I had
planned to go out to lunch so we could get organized and coordinated – ha!
Meanwhile, back at the ranch, Christopher has been furiously working away at
his Bible memory program, due today. He amazed the Christian Ed. Committee by
accomplishing what seemed like an impossible task, memorizing the year’s work
(Bible verses, hymns, and catechism questions) in about a month. He is also
tooling away at Algebra and spelling to wrap up his eighth grade work. The pace
is not relentless, since there are many allowable distractions. One of course,
is his twice weekly babysitting job at the Kricks. Another is taking care of
Belle. Belle is the chocolate Labrador dog of the Fletchers. They went on a 12
day trip to take their daughter to college in New England and have a family
vacation. Since Belle is advanced in years, they couldn’t bring themselves to
put her in a kennel, and hit upon the idea of hiring Chris to take care of her.
They assiduously assured us that she was well-trained. Naturally, she pooped in
the house three times in the first day. But truthfully, since then she has been
a model dog and the boys are enjoying having her here.
Christopher had a follow-up echo with the cardiologist and he has decided to
double Chris’ medication since the Atenolol did not appear to have an effect
on slowing his rate of aortic root growth. Chris hasn’t had any trouble
tolerating the medication but it does seem like a trial to him to have to
remember now to take it twice each day.
Stephen is delighting in the last days of summer – twisting my arm to rent
movies, reading the Redwall series over again, playing with his bow and
arrow, getting invited to do things with friends, and practicing with his soccer
team. They went to a tournament last weekend, were soundly beaten, and salved
their egos by challenging the girls’ team (two years older) to a scrimmage and
tying them.
Ben can’t wait for his soccer team to begin. I found some old turf shoes in
the basement and he loves to put them on and practice.
I have been busy with responsibilities as an officer in the soccer club. I
have been trying to set up some procedure and policy manuals which will
hopefully make things simpler and easier in the future, but in the short run
this project consumes a good bit of time. Similarly, I have had to get things
set up for MAFA. Then in addition there have been an unusual amount of household
projects, mostly connected with cleaning up after our contractor. David has
handled the brunt of those. We wish all of that could have been finished before
Lehigh started up, but that’s the way it goes. We have been pretty frazzled, I
must admit.
I think the only big topic I haven’t covered is Lehigh/RUF. David and I
spent our ususal freshman orientation day getting sunburned and greeting all the
freshman. We had help from some of the upperclassmen this year, which was very
nice. Then we had two s’mores parties at the freshmen dorms ( a s’more is a
roasted marshmallow and chocolate put between graham crackers), the club fair
(where we handed out leftover Hershey bars), and a praise jam night with all the
Christian groups on campus. On Friday we had our first official social event,
miniature golfing. We had twenty six show up for that, in spite of the fact that
the area was under a severe thunderstorm watch. Sure enough, it rained but
fervent prayer kept it to slightly less than drenching rain and we all finished
the round and ended up with ice cream or hot chocolate. Today we took six
students to church. David sent out an email inviting students to church and then
to our house for lunch afterwards. In addition to the six who came to church,
three others asked if they could just come for lunch! And Jim Femister figured
he was invited for lunch, too. It really was the grace of God that we managed to
pull that off. As mentioned, I wasn’t feeling very well and hadn’t done much
more than make a cherry pie on Saturday to get ready. We had barely enough food
but it was great to make contact with so many new students. This Tuesday we have
a first large group meeting of the semester. Unfortunately, Tuesday night will
be a conflict for me with Stephen’s soccer practice. I’m not sure how we
will resolve that; I really like to attend the meeting.
David is going full-steam to keep up with all these contacts. David here.
So far we have 46 new contacts - about twice last year. At this point it
looks like he will have enough students for a Bible study in two freshman dorms,
as well as a possible graduate student study, in addition to the large group
meeting and the leadership team meetings. The girls have talked to me about
being involved in a study with them, but I just don’t have the time.
One major event, and I hope I’m not stealing Mom and Dad’s thunder by
saying this, is that on Monday my brother and I attended the settlement of the
property next door. I wrote out the biggest check of my life and, as agent,
purchased 629 Fourth Avenue for my parents (with their money, of course). The
Lawrences are staying there until tomorrow, after which we will begin to move
some of Mom and Dad’s stored things in there. The boys keep asking when Nana
and Poppa are arriving.
The only sad thing about the purchase is that it means that Amy (and her
babysitter, Joan) are moving away. Amy has been an exceptional friend to both
Stephen and Ben, and Joan is Mrs. Santa Claus personified. Chris, Steve, Ben,
and I decided to memorialize this event by taking Amy, Joan, and Adam out to
lunch at Nick’s on her last day here and then we went for two rounds of
bowling. Ben even had two strikes! I managed my top score ever (139?) – all
due to having bumpers in the gutters. We delivered Amy to her new neighborhood
and took a tour of their home. The setting is lovely but it is not a
neighborhood with children unfortunately. We will miss her, though we expect the
kids will still get together from time to time. Adam suggested we make the
bowling outing a monthly ritual, since the children enjoyed it so much.
We have been praying for Gail’s father, who has just been put in hospice
care, and is apparently in a lot of pain. Also, David’s father is undergoing
tests for possible blocked arteries.